Thanks Tracy I bet you're glad that your Crossdressing is out in the open.

Be careful not to over do it as Emma may rapidly go the other way communication is key keep talking and remain honest about it.

D

That's the thing we all want to hear our wives saying something like wow you could pass as a woman. It's what we look to achieve or I do anyway.

It's not about the knickers and basques and the thrill so much it's the effort put into trying to look convincing and it sounds like you pull that off well if your wife thinks you could pass.

Still think you need to write a book.

J

Thankyou Jodie

I have thought about the book.. maybe I will one day when I have the time.

It was very nice to hear her utter the words.. you could pass as a woman etc as the other day she said she sees me as just me in makeup and a wig... I like what I see in the mirror anyway lol

I've just read you crossdressing history so similar to mine I'd wear anyone's clothes left laying about even soiled let alone clean on radiators. Even my mum in laws when they were on holiday and me and my girlfriend house sat there was my gas, her older sisters and her mums wardrobe to peruse at my leisure bing in college as my wife was in work I'd have half day no classes come home and decide hmm. What to wear.
Terrible thinking back but only a bit of fun and needs must to satisfy the urge to crossdress. Keep blogging.

Thanks Teresa mad what we'd do to grab a crossdressing fix....

Like a few others on here just like to say thanks for the blog.

My husband came out as a Crossdresser recently and I was devastated.

He gave me your blog to read as he says your reasons and his are very similar for wanting to crossdress.

If he's telling the truth and he is straight and dresses up for fun and escapism then what the hell no harm done.

Christmas shopping will be easier this year to stop him borrowing my things

Sharon from S wales

Hi Sharon glad the blogs helped

For some reason today I find myself recalling my crossdressing life.. perhaps its because I read a book by Karen Adler with tales of crossdressing and I'm finding it funny looking back.. Always fab to see someone coming to terms with crossdressing as long at its open and honest

How come Lynzys seen you? To fancy hell out of you?? Lol
When do us readers get a chance to see a pic of you crossdressed?

There is a pic of my eyes on here that's all that's going here.

Email me and I can send you a link to my TVChix profile where I have a few photos :)

My wife thinks you need to turn some of your blog into a book and get it on Amazon.

Your Help and Advice has helped us get over me confessing that after 2 years of being wed that I've always crossdressed which shocked hell out of my wife and I directed her to your help and advice blog and she said reading your personal blog also helped her relate some stuff as you and I seem very similar.

Thank you

You'd write a good book no doubt.

Would you want to out yourself as the author though?

Not sure how it works.
I could use a psudoname then only the publisher would know my real identity?

I've read a few books on the subject of Crossdressing and identified with some of the text but not all.
I suppose I could put something down into a book chapter and verse type of thing if people think it would help.
Maybe some time in the future I will.
Thanks
D

I'd never thought about perfume before.. Painting my nails and worrying if the varnish would come off yes and the smell of nail varnish but never perfume.

My wife wears diamonds perfume Armani and I love the smell on her it has an effect on me as you say about some perfumes like there's a veto one in it that makes a man horney.

So yesterday having caught up on your blog I had opportunity to dress up and I said to her can I try your perfume as I love the smell on you and she agreed.

The problem is I think she must have given me cats pi$$ in a bottle as it smelt revoulting on me. I'm now determined to find one that smells nice on me. My wife said we can go to Boots and sneak samples on me when no ones looking how exciting.

Haha well like I said perfume and aftershave for that matter smells different on different people.. Seriously tho was it really Cats Pi$$?

Did you offer to spray some on you're beloved just to check

really great talking to you today Davina. Great website. I don't care if you are straight I fancy the hell out of you !

Lynzy xx

Haha yes nice to chat via tvchix.
As for Fancying the hell out of me there is no hell in me I'm pure as snow.
Nice to see my trying to look fem being appreciated lol.
My wife will laugh at someone saying they fancy me as my alter ego haha.

You should put a chat facility on this blog

So many like minded people we'd probably talk about football, rugby and beer.

Seriously though a chat function would be cool I'm always checking in here to see what's been added in the guestbook and that's getting as interesting as the Blog sorta slow chatting over many days between likeminded crossdressers

The Tranny Police need not apply!!

Seconded

Come on Davina sort chat out on your blog Pleeeease

No idea how to put chat here so this is the best I can do lol..

Chat over many days

I guess for chat I'd have to pay for the pro version on webnode... this one is Freeee and I like Freeee things

D

We're the best kind of Crossdresser honest to ourselves and to our other halves.

I've learnt to laugh at the so called Tranny Police living in their bubble of beliefs

D

Hi Davina,
I've just been reading your blog (well, actually, I've had a lazy Sunday and found myself coming back to it and reading more and more!). I wanted to say thanks for taking the time to put it together...I almost could have written most of it myself, it rings so true :)
Like you I've struggled with the Tranny police on a certain well-known website, so it's nice to know I'm not the only one. I think most web forums attract a particular kind of dominant personality, who can end up (knowingly or not) shouting down voices that they identify as dissenting.
I told my wonderful, beautiful girlfriend about my dressing last summer. Scariest thing I've ever done, by a country mile! She's been wonderful. Although she doesn't really understand (which is ok, because I don't either), she supports me in my need to express my feminine side. So much so, that she bought me a 3 hour makeover for my birthday :) She's not happy seeing me dressed, though, even though she's seen a picture of me. Maybe that'll come in time. If I could get over my nerves, I love the idea of a girly night in...although I also recognise that she needs to feel that she's the woman in our relationship.
Tricky this stuff, isn't it?
The urge to put on some nice lingerie, a pretty dress and some sexy heels is so powerful and the feelings it evokes so strong, it's odd we can't work out where it comes from. But it does feel so good, doesn't it?
I'll stop rambling, but I wanted you to know how much I appreciate your efforts.
Take care (and maybe work a little less ;))
Sara
X

Thanks for the post Sara

Again nice to know there are some level headed Crossdressers / T-Girls about and also nice that you recognise the "Tranny Police" the been there worn the T-shirt brigade who are hell bent on being right and we're wrong as we're straight and in happy relationships with accepting wives or girlfriends.

Maybe its a jealous thing?

Anyway nice of you to add the above here - I'll keep blogging.

D

I've noticed it too the lady's have started wearing black tights and high heels to work and round town.. So refreshing compared to bare leafs and flip flops for the last few months.

Don't like these dark nights though

Are you in Narnia or some warmer climate where women wear bare leafs? I hope you mean legs lol.

Would you Adam and Eve it..

D