Thanks Teresa mad what we'd do to grab a crossdressing fix....

Like a few others on here just like to say thanks for the blog.

My husband came out as a Crossdresser recently and I was devastated.

He gave me your blog to read as he says your reasons and his are very similar for wanting to crossdress.

If he's telling the truth and he is straight and dresses up for fun and escapism then what the hell no harm done.

Christmas shopping will be easier this year to stop him borrowing my things

Sharon from S wales

Hi Sharon glad the blogs helped

For some reason today I find myself recalling my crossdressing life.. perhaps its because I read a book by Karen Adler with tales of crossdressing and I'm finding it funny looking back.. Always fab to see someone coming to terms with crossdressing as long at its open and honest

How come Lynzys seen you? To fancy hell out of you?? Lol
When do us readers get a chance to see a pic of you crossdressed?

There is a pic of my eyes on here that's all that's going here.

Email me and I can send you a link to my TVChix profile where I have a few photos :)

My wife thinks you need to turn some of your blog into a book and get it on Amazon.

Your Help and Advice has helped us get over me confessing that after 2 years of being wed that I've always crossdressed which shocked hell out of my wife and I directed her to your help and advice blog and she said reading your personal blog also helped her relate some stuff as you and I seem very similar.

Thank you

You'd write a good book no doubt.

Would you want to out yourself as the author though?

Not sure how it works.
I could use a psudoname then only the publisher would know my real identity?

I've read a few books on the subject of Crossdressing and identified with some of the text but not all.
I suppose I could put something down into a book chapter and verse type of thing if people think it would help.
Maybe some time in the future I will.
Thanks
D

I'd never thought about perfume before.. Painting my nails and worrying if the varnish would come off yes and the smell of nail varnish but never perfume.

My wife wears diamonds perfume Armani and I love the smell on her it has an effect on me as you say about some perfumes like there's a veto one in it that makes a man horney.

So yesterday having caught up on your blog I had opportunity to dress up and I said to her can I try your perfume as I love the smell on you and she agreed.

The problem is I think she must have given me cats pi$$ in a bottle as it smelt revoulting on me. I'm now determined to find one that smells nice on me. My wife said we can go to Boots and sneak samples on me when no ones looking how exciting.

Haha well like I said perfume and aftershave for that matter smells different on different people.. Seriously tho was it really Cats Pi$$?

Did you offer to spray some on you're beloved just to check

really great talking to you today Davina. Great website. I don't care if you are straight I fancy the hell out of you !

Lynzy xx

Haha yes nice to chat via tvchix.
As for Fancying the hell out of me there is no hell in me I'm pure as snow.
Nice to see my trying to look fem being appreciated lol.
My wife will laugh at someone saying they fancy me as my alter ego haha.

You should put a chat facility on this blog

So many like minded people we'd probably talk about football, rugby and beer.

Seriously though a chat function would be cool I'm always checking in here to see what's been added in the guestbook and that's getting as interesting as the Blog sorta slow chatting over many days between likeminded crossdressers

The Tranny Police need not apply!!

Seconded

Come on Davina sort chat out on your blog Pleeeease

No idea how to put chat here so this is the best I can do lol..

Chat over many days

I guess for chat I'd have to pay for the pro version on webnode... this one is Freeee and I like Freeee things

D

We're the best kind of Crossdresser honest to ourselves and to our other halves.

I've learnt to laugh at the so called Tranny Police living in their bubble of beliefs

D

Hi Davina,
I've just been reading your blog (well, actually, I've had a lazy Sunday and found myself coming back to it and reading more and more!). I wanted to say thanks for taking the time to put it together...I almost could have written most of it myself, it rings so true :)
Like you I've struggled with the Tranny police on a certain well-known website, so it's nice to know I'm not the only one. I think most web forums attract a particular kind of dominant personality, who can end up (knowingly or not) shouting down voices that they identify as dissenting.
I told my wonderful, beautiful girlfriend about my dressing last summer. Scariest thing I've ever done, by a country mile! She's been wonderful. Although she doesn't really understand (which is ok, because I don't either), she supports me in my need to express my feminine side. So much so, that she bought me a 3 hour makeover for my birthday :) She's not happy seeing me dressed, though, even though she's seen a picture of me. Maybe that'll come in time. If I could get over my nerves, I love the idea of a girly night in...although I also recognise that she needs to feel that she's the woman in our relationship.
Tricky this stuff, isn't it?
The urge to put on some nice lingerie, a pretty dress and some sexy heels is so powerful and the feelings it evokes so strong, it's odd we can't work out where it comes from. But it does feel so good, doesn't it?
I'll stop rambling, but I wanted you to know how much I appreciate your efforts.
Take care (and maybe work a little less ;))
Sara
X

Thanks for the post Sara

Again nice to know there are some level headed Crossdressers / T-Girls about and also nice that you recognise the "Tranny Police" the been there worn the T-shirt brigade who are hell bent on being right and we're wrong as we're straight and in happy relationships with accepting wives or girlfriends.

Maybe its a jealous thing?

Anyway nice of you to add the above here - I'll keep blogging.

D

I've noticed it too the lady's have started wearing black tights and high heels to work and round town.. So refreshing compared to bare leafs and flip flops for the last few months.

Don't like these dark nights though

Are you in Narnia or some warmer climate where women wear bare leafs? I hope you mean legs lol.

Would you Adam and Eve it..

D

Cool Stats but I think us Married Straight Family Man, Alpha Male types are in a minority.

My wife sort of accepts me dressing.

I am free to dress when home alone and a glance of me dressed or dressing when shes gone to bed which weirdly helps me unwind at the end of a stressful day is ok but she doesn't want to see me dressed all the time or spend any time with me dressed up. I see you got past that your wife facing her fears about being with your alter ego socially.

I'd love to try a girls night in but feel a little weird and ashamed for wanting it.

Maybe stats on the levels of Sort of accepting in the next poll.

Great Blog really helping me come to terms with crossdressing im 27 and married for 4 years and she caught me trying on her wedding dress lol I actually got stuck in it and she had to help me get out whilst shouting at me oops. She didn't see the funny side so 4 days after we got married she discovered she'd married a crossdresser.

Was just about to post a hello as me and Davina chat sometimes on Chix and I finally finished reading her advice and blog and saw Hannah has seconds a go posted.

Lol wedding dress been there done that Hannah.

As Davina states in her blog theres this trans spectrum and you yourself are on that spectrum and seems feeling a little ashamed. don't worry about that it comes and goes.

Your wife is also in a transition of acceptance who knows curiosity may get the best of her and like Davina you may have some eureka moment as she described it where your wife asks to see you dressed or asks you more questions like what do you do when you dress?

My wife had similar caught me dressed freaked out then went into a cazillion questions why ? what do you do? how long you been doing this?

We had the girly nights in pampering eachother and we've been out to Sparkle a few times which we both enjoyed. Liberating to be out an about as Rebecca.

What has happened with us is when I'm a man I'm very much master of the house but when were together both as "girls" she feels more dominant over me which I kinda like. So nice to find t-girls on the same wavelength and some nice Real Girls commenting here too. Well done Davina great blog very insightful.

Hi Rebecca
It is nice to know there are others on the level like you and me or you and I... I told my wife .. I'm sure I'd have got caught one day and had some close calls along the way living at home dressing and dressing before I told my wife.. Glad she didn't catch me.

Not had a girls night in for over a year.. Have a hubby and wife day planned Saturday with baby sitters can't wait but I'll stay in man mode.

Thanks Rebecca

Nail hit on the head married straight family men who Crossdress in the overall scheme of the trans spectrum are in a minority or so I feel from chatting and posting in the forums on TVChix...
Which is why some on there have sent me angry posts in the forums on my blog being called why do men crossdress which you can see I've now elaborated on in the welcome page.

My wife's rules went from dress when I'm out to that fateful day when she came upstairs face to face and told me my wig was crap. Maybe your wife will do the same communication is key if you want to move to a next stage and if she's willing to move with you. At some point you'll find a nice balance.

Our girls night in I felt weird but a few glasses of wine and voila was fine and the second time my wife wanted to see me transform which was nerve wracking lol.

Wedding dress yes did that the day after we got married she was in the bath I tried on the lingerie stockings dress and heels quite erotic lol...