Womens Contentment?

Some Women ive chatted to state that due to their life plans coming to fruition, married, house, kids and in their contentment they somehow loose their sex drives and will to make an effort for themselves…

ie cant be bothered with makeup or to wear matching lingerie …

I make a lot of effort as a man or when Crossdressed to look nice, very rarely will I look scruffy or not make an effort to look attractive as a bloke..

Please comment ..am I right or wrong?