Why did I get married knowing I was a crossdresser and my wife may not accept it

When I got married :

A) Crossdressing in my mind wasn’t a factor as I’d more or less stopped dressing

B) I didn’t think Crossdressing would ever be a problem or factor until it escalated due to stress and

C) How do we know how women will react to us as Crossdressers?

Should we turn them aside and avoid marrying someone we love by not marrying women who accept us as Crossdressers – We’re not inflicted with some disease, we just like to dress up and it’s so occasional and has no negative bearing on a relationship.