We (I mean us Part Time Straight Crossdressers) Don't Really Fit In Anywhere

The thing about being a straight crossdresser is that, on top of not really fitting into mainstream society and being thought of as Weird and stereotyped as a pervert or as being gay, we don't really fit into the LGBT
community either.

I've found this in chat and on the TVChix forum being told you're not a proper tranny which I found funny but also annoying as Us Part time straight Tgirls don't fit anywhere the most frowned on for whatever
reason.

Gay men tend to get annoyed and believe we don't know what their struggle is like (I'll be honest I don't care about their struggle seeing Gay marriage legalised and the progress they have made despite their plight in
the past), bisexual men and T-Girls seem to find it confusing because many assume mixing genders would mean liking sex with both and all genders.

The trans part of the LGBT equation is where some think crossdressers would fit in, but there's a lot of infighting in that group which is kind of hard to sum up... and I wont rant too much here about Trans having
nothing to do with LGBT otherwise it should be called LGBT&S (Lesbian. Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Straights)

Let me put it this way in agreement with another blogger:

I'm a crossdresser who has no issues putting myself out there on the internet, but to date, the most hostility I've encountered has not been from the homophobic idiots as you'd expect, but from other trans people...

Obviously not all of them are hostile, but I think that many of them have a violent gag reflex at the thought of being associated with someone who is "just" a man in a dress who is happily married, has kids, a job, a house and a company car and escapes by crossdressing occasionally but isn't into men or other t girls sexually just enjoys being Crossdressed but then easily returns to the normality of being a man knowing he can flit between both time and opportunity permitting..

Why ostracise Straight Crossdressers as pariahs of the Trans community Arrrggghh I did rant!

The Trans folk who do get aggressive with have obviously been through plenty of crap to get to live as they wish, (We've gone through similar having to sweat on explaining to our wives that we crossdress win their assurance risking everything as for all we kow they might pack their bags or ours)

I get not wanting to be belittled as some bloke who they see as doing it for fun or attention.

They even they tend to make the assumptions that we are closet bisexual and must want sex with other tgirls or men and if you're not gay or transitioning, then it must be a sexual kink or you aren't a proper Tranny.

Go figure - Who cares some of us have accepting wives and can crossdress safe in the knowledge that our relationships are safe and we can live as the best of both gender.. time and opportunity permitting that is..

Maybe the "others" who don't have what we have are jellous but from what I've seen i can look considerabkly more convincing than some of the haters (smug grin).