Fifty Shades of Grey

 So I tried reading all 3 books but found them poorly written and boring so ended up skim reading them thinking aren't these books broadcasted as some sweet romance with BDSM put into the mix some tycoon billionaire and some plane Jane whom he turns into his submissive contract et all.

So yesterday I watched the film with my wife and 3/4 through she said this is pretty rubbish but we went on with her telling me the plot and what wasn't in the film which was relevant in the book.

My conclusion its not worth paying the cinema entry fee for so i facebooked / tweeted "I've seen it... verdict.... don't bother"

She read this and said "Oh you're just jumping on the band wagon"

"No it's my opinion its a rubbish story, they are rubbish books and the film is all talk talk talk boring with some what i thought were horrible scenes of a woman being treated like a piece of meat by some weirdo tycoon with some weirdo fetish and a screw loose"

Ok if shes consenting to being spanked by hand or with a riding crop fair enough if people get a kick out of it but she didnt know what to expect as he tied her up and hit hell out of her.. How is this romantic? how is this consenting .. she used her safe word and he was gutted.. is this what women want? you gotta be jokin and what message does it send to some men "women want this sort of thing?"

ok Dominant and submissive but you gotta take a break you cant live like a slave 24/7 to someones beck n call to be smacked and shagged and to be tied up and to do everything someone says.. basically treated like shit for someones kicks!!

I found that I agree with the womens lib brigade which i hardly ever agree with as feel women today have the upper hand in equality but looking at IMDB and other film review websites im glad to see people have rated the film 1 out of 10 and ripped into it for the rubbish it is. 

I hope it flops and film 2 and 3 are forgotten about but what i dont get and what worries me is women are flocking to see it,  flocking to see this Christian Grey character who if he's attractive to women and a romantic figure then I give up.. rational women going mad over it and wanting to watch the film together..my wife her mum and sister are going together to watch it (now can you imagine if my my brother in law and father were going to the cinema to see soft porn?).

Can you imagine the opposite and men flocking to see some porno staring a glamerous woman ? women would be appauled ... perhaps thats why men are appauled.. talk about women behaving like men... or rather neandethail men.

A scene i cannot stand is women flocking to some social club to see strippers and how they turn into animals that for me is like cheating.. id never go to a strip joint to see some woman stripping off and women think men who do that are slimeballs .... but nowadays it seems its ok for women to do it?

If my wife ever said me and the girls are going to see a stripper id say might as well pack your things as the locks would be changed and that may seem harsh but thats my beliefs id feel it a betrayal... i think it quite disgusting and the same goes for the way women are behaving about fifty shades of grey.

Society really dissapoints me people are like sheep doing what other people do, copying what other people do ... im starting to think being an individual and thinking for yourself is a scarce comodity as society is shaped not to think for themselves... worrying times..