Conditional Love?
Katie makes a good point in the chat help and debate page “Is the love for a husband conditional?”
I would like my wife to dress up a little more, to see her in dresses, tights (stockings ohhh) and high heels but I’m not about to leave because she won't.
Interestingly Emma did a positive thing for both herself and her husband as in the previous blog and as her confidence grew so did her acceptance.
Maybe her secret is that she boosted her own self-esteem at the same time as taking on the realisation that her husband crossdressed plus being able to chat here and seek others advice and outlook.
If Emmas increased self-esteem is linked to accepting crossdressing then that is a positive connection and where we find our Emmas and wives like mine our job is to ensure we give plenty of male attention and also to definatley keep her feeling like a sexy, desirable and beautiful woman!
I’ll pinch Katies parable “If we look for positive connections then these will grow and strengthen overtime but if we look for negatives then the same will happen…. The power of positive thinking is immense”